Dating Tips for Men
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The ability to change your colors. How cool would that be? You're on the battlefield and you
blend into your surroundings. That could save your life.
Save your life in the dating scene by changing your colors...My Chameleon Theory.
Women, and people for that matter, want to label us. It’s human nature.
Imagine this. You are riding the subway and you see a bum. You label him in your mind. "He stinks, he has no
job, he drinks and he is, and always will be, a loser".
Everyday, there he is, the bum, on your train. You don’t want to see or smell him but he is always there,
stinking to high heaven.
Now imagine this. You're on the train you look over and there he is, the bum? He has a an Armani suit on, his
teeth are brilliant white, he wears a Rolex watch, and he is talking on his Iphone.
This can’t be. You're shocked. You have questions, you are now very, very interested in this guy. The
label you put on him just got squashed.
This is powerful stuff.Now apply this to picking up women, be a chameleon, change
your colors. Same thing, that girl over there sees you and is labeling you as you sip your drink. If
you're shy and an average looking guy, her label might be "he’s an average, boring, run of the mill man, I’ll
Now all of a sudden you make strong eye contact with her, you smile and laugh. She becomes confused. Her
label is unraveling and her interest is a bit stronger. This might be done subconsciously in her mind.
Then you put your sports jacket on and tighten up your tie. Now she says, " ok he’s a conservative guy that
dresses nice." (Notice the boring and run of the mill is gone)
Then minutes pass, your jacket and tie comes off, shirt opens up, necklace and maybe tattoo appear. She looks
over and is blown away. Her label for you got squashed and she is now interested through curiosity.
Now I’m not advocating to go get a tattoo but you get my point.
This is my Chameleon Theory. Change your colors and lose that label.
When a guy interrupts a women’s natural labeling progression, her attraction
Try this. You're at a bar. Walk around and make sure women notice you. If you can, try to stand out a little;
(but don’t be an idiot) use heavy eye contact, lots of laughter, dance or whatever.
Next, later in the evening, go out to your car and change into a nice white shirt. (You were wearing a dark
shirt by the way).
Watch what happens. People will notice and even say, "why did you change your shirt?" They need to know. It
doesn’t make sense to them.
They had you "labeled" as a guy in a dark Maroon shirt. Then explain why, with an outlandish story
about how it’s a "mood shirt" and you never really changed.
I have it easy. I’m an older guy who doesn’t belong at a young bar. Or so the label goes. Women look over and my
label is clear. I’m an older guy who snuck out from his family and kids for a look at some young hotties. How
Sounds like the odds are stacked against me, right? This is how I game it.
I can dance. I’m probably the best dancer at the venue. Shy of any Glee Club break dancer, I rank.
I taught myself and it’s not difficult for you to be an above average dancer either.
Anyway, after the night gets going I start to dance. Suddenly my label gets stripped away and women
become curious towards me. It’s like they have an epiphany.
A guy that breaks their label and is exciting, mysterious and could be a whole lot of fun. With this much
attention I can easily move into my body language skills and pick out the girls that are interested in me-an
I’m the bum on the train!
Dancing is my main gig, but I’ve got several others angles for you to try.
My Chameleon Theory, change YOUR colors
Think multiple personalities and mix it up. Once you have broken away from your "label" your
opportunities with women will be amazing.
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