How to Pick Up Girls at the Beach
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Oooo, scary, very scary. Can you imagine picking up a girl at the beach? In her bikini? This is the where
you look at a guy doing it and say, "shit, I hate him."
But deep down you wish you could. Well I have a question for you, Have you ever tried? I was at the beach two
days ago and I had some success. So I thought I would share.
It’s summer guys, at least in Boston, let’s take stock. How’s the body looking? Do we have some semblance of a
tan? And please, no Speedos.
I have to mention these things because this is somewhat of an advanced tactic. The beach is full of girls and
they are bored.
They will also immediately know if you are sucking in your stomach and breathing in short breaths. Also, get
some cool surf shorts. Basically anything sold at a Surf Shop will be cool. Surfers are cool.
Location. Location. Location
Take time and place yourself strategically next to a single woman or two if you are with a friend. Sadly though,
the hot babe usually has a beached whale in tow. Try to get multiple women around you
in case you strike out. And be prepared to move if you doubly strike out.
This is tough, I know. But remember you are your worse enemy and I’m willing to bet you have never tried. Why?
Because some where in our male gene base is a DNA strand that says, "don’t ever try to meet a half naked
pretty girl on sand."
That said, walk up and say something pithy. Make an observation and ask her name. But I’ve got better ways. You
know I have better ways. I always have better ways....enough.
A better way on how to pick up girls at the beach
If you have placed yourself properly, you are within earshot of this woman. Ease drop. Try to pick up on her
conversation. Try to learn something, anything, about her. Maybe she is talking on her phone about her plans later.
I practice this tactic all the time and it works!
If you listen well you should be able to tell if she has a boyfriend or if she is single. Say to her, "I
couldn’t help over hearing that you are going to the Mix Fest (or whatever ) tonight. If she has a hat on, say, "I
like your hat, I feel the hat is an under utilized accessory." Be cute.
The key is you are laying on your towel and you are making casual conversation without having to walk over stone
cold to the girl with out any ammo. This is less intimidating to her and less scary for you.
Other ways of meeting your hottie on the beach
Time your walk to the water with hers. This way the Ipod is out of her ear.
Ask them to join you at the beach
bar, or time your beach bar visit with theirs.
How to pick up girls at the beach, Bring some props
OK, let’s not make this Everest Base Camp but this is what I bring.
Always music- And I mean music with some real capabilities. Now this has to be practiced with some subtleties,
not everyone wants to hear your boom box. But music attracts and gets me revved up.. Lose the personal
A cooler with alcohol- (disguised of course ) That way you can offer them drinks, another option.
Do not throw coconuts- I did this in Bahamas, needless to say, I might of bruised her.
Boogie boards and other play goodies- Women never get offered these fun toys! ASK THEM!
See? That was easy!
Think style guys, style. Don’t
have a chink in your armor. Be in
shape, have a base tan, cool shades and surf shorts.
Bring the activities and include the women you seek. Be respectful, smile and be casual and you will have a
great time at the beach! Oh and if she is over 160 lbs, harpoon her!
Blue Martini, Boca
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