How to Ask a Girl Out
Three Kick Ass Ideas to Guarantee "Yes"
How To Ask A Girl
Out
I’ll never forget, I was 12 when I asked out my first girl. I knew her, her
name was Jocelyn, she liked me and I was nervous as hell.
I thought I knew how to ask a girl out.
I had already cleared it with my Mom. She was going to drive us to the Topsfield
Fair. I was going to impress her with my throwing arm and waste that friggin clown. I had 20 bucks. The
pressure was on.
I asked her out in front of her friends as her bus pulled up. She was in a
rush.
She said NO, albeit in a very polite way.
I WAS DEVASTATED
Looking back I might have embarrassed her or shocked her or both. My timing was terrible. I was nervous and wanted
to get it over with. Maybe if I knew what I write below in the following paragraphs, things would have
been different.
This was a crushing experience; one that would cost me many dates going forward, for the impact was long
lasting.
Needless to say I have recovered from Jocelyn’s rejection with a
vengeance.
Here are the fool proof steps to ask a girl out;
How to Ask a Girl Out Step #1, Attraction has an expiration date
Think milk. On your forehead is a date called “I expire in the next 3 days.” Now this might not be the actual time
but you get my point. Guys that are experienced ask a girl out quickly.
They never drag it out.
This accomplishes a couple things;
You avoid the “dreaded friend zone.” You make it clear that you are sexually
interested in her and this is not about a friendship. The only exception to this is an extremely hot girl that you
feel is out of your league. Read Dating a 10.
You are asking her out when the mystery and the freshness of the two of you meeting
is at its peak. There is a problem of waiting months later even if you know she will still be in your life
somehow.
Maybe this is a work associate. You become Gregg in accounting, not Gregg, that hot
funny dude that makes me laugh.
How to Ask a Girl Out Step #2, Down play the date
“Hi Sarah would you like to go out on a date Friday night? I have a limo lined up,
dinner at the Ritz and a concert that I would like you to join me at?”
WRONG!
You are too "all in." There is no mystery. She knows you like her too much, too soon.
This is a total turn off to Sarah even if she does/did like your ass.
Furthermore, you might as well tell her to bring birth protection because by the end
of this date you sure as hell are going to want to get laid and she knows it!
Instead, make it a low key event. You already know what her interests are because you
have read this website and asked. Ask her to
a venue that she likes, not what you like, unless it’s mutual. Taking her to monster truck event is not going to
make her want you.
Do this;
“Sarah, my friend canceled and I have an extra ticket to the wine expo this weekend,
wanna go?”
See how nice this flows. The pressure is off you if she says no, and she thinks
that you going anyway…no big deal.
Now get her drunk and nail the crap out of her (haha…kidding)
How to Ask a Girl Out Final Step, Ask her out on a high
note
I always think of Seinfeld when it comes to this one. George makes a great joke and
then takes it too far. So he comes up with a new tactic where he says something very witty and leaves the situation
on a high note.
This is your job. During your experience of engaging this girl that you would like to
court, ask her out when the two of you are laughing together. Ask her on a high note.
Too many guys will ask a girl out at the end of the night, for example, when the
lights come on and her friends are rushing her to leave.
How to Ask a Girl Out, Conclusion
Jocelyn is long gone from my life. I think “what could have been” if I followed my
three proven steps above lol!
Remember;
Attraction has an expiration date, never make a big deal out of asking a girl out and
ask your Jocelyn out on a high note…
Now you know how to ask a girl
out
GOOD LUCK MY FELLOW READERS!
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